Indeed, there are so many things we want to get for ourselves. We always desire for validation from other people for we think that it's the best thing to do or have. I have to disagree with this thought. As long as you know your worth, and you are not dependent towards other people's views and opinions about you, these "needs" will be irrelevant. Let's focus on the people we love, and give the attention and time it deserves. That's more acceptable idea.